Ramblings of the Day

I spent last night watching videos of people recounting their Near Death Experiences.  I keep searching for something that is helpful to why I should keep on going in life and holding on to any glimpse of hope that I will be able to see McKel again.

I cannot make sense of why each NDE seems to be different, based on the culture, faith, etc. of the person experiencing it.  That seems to be a brain thing.

The part that seems to be universal in every experience, is that the purpose of everything is unconditional love.  People describe out of body experiences, where the body is just a limited physical tool/filter to experience this life, but that we are actually part of something much greater and brilliant.  Time is not linear, there is purpose to everything, and we are loved and cherished.

I have to rely on faith and hope.  To me, there seems to be a large amount of evidence that these are real experiences.  If they are real, suggesting life after death, then I will get to see McKel again.  It will feel like forever, being trapped in this human body and experiencing the frustrations of life.  McKel has so many answers to her inquisitive personality now.  I hope she will tell me all about the universe.

I love her so much it hurts in every tiny cell of my body.  She is everything.  I love you always and forever McKel.  Please help me to be a good person and shine in this world, until I can see you again. 

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